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Behold: 54 Low-Key First Valentine's Day Gifts That'll Appropriately Spoil Your New Boyfriend
Raise your hand if you've just started dating your person and are now feeling the pressure to find the perfect first Valentine's Day gift for your boyfriend. I feel you. You're searching for a gift that's not over-the-top but also doesn't look like you totally forgot to get them something. Unfortunately, shopping for someone you're dating can be a daunting task (and if you thought shopping for your husband was any easier, think again). But no worries, here are a few pretty good suggestions for Valentine's Day gifts your guy will love, based on how long you've been dating.
This content is imported from {embed-name}. You may be able to find the same content in another format, or you may be able to find more information, at their web site.If things are still new and you've only been together for a matter of weeks, try a lighthearted, funny gift. If you two have been spending lots of quality time together, then go with an experience gift that you can do with each other. Or if you're already dropping the L-word, then we've got plenty of romantic gift ideas, too.
Use this guide to help you figure out what awesome Valentine’s Day gift to get your boyfriend based on how long you’ve been together, whether you're looking for the first Valentine's Day gift for your boyfriend or the fifth.
If It's Your First V-Day Together
Love it or hate it, Valentine's Day is definitely a holiday you'll want to be prepared for if you're dating someone, especially if you'll be celebrating it together for the first time. Although you might not go all out after you've been dating for five years, everything about a new relationship is fun and exciting and worth making a big deal. If he's the outdoorsy type, a camping trip could be a fun way to bond and spend some time alone together. Play a campfire game over the open fire or over this mini travel grill. If you're more of the indoorsy type, a funny candle instead of a campfire might be more your style. Whip up a meal together and supply all the sauces and ingredients as part of your gift, too.
Other safe bets would be a relaxing oil blend, a nice leather bracelet, or a sweet card—but because your first Valentine's Day together can fall anywhere between a few days after you started seeing each other to almost an entire year of dating, you might want a few more time-specific gift ideas. Say no more! To break it down even further, I've gathered a few more gift suggestions for relationships under three months, six months, nine months, a year, and two years or longer, so keep scrolling.
If you have no idea what to get because it's your first V-day, go with one of these:
Fun Games
Campfire Cards and Dice Games Set
$26.00
A new scent
Bleu de Chanel Parfum
$125.00
A Mini Grill
Portable Suitcase Grill
$100.00
A Lighthearted Card
8-Pack The World Is a Mess Blank Cards
$24.00
Dinner at Home
Set of 3 Thai Curry Sampler Kit
$35.00
A Leather Bracelet
Brown Leather Bracelet
$70.00
These Saucy Sauces
Sriracha & Ranch VIP Set
$47.99
If You’ve Been Together Less Than 3 Months
You can definitely go for something classic and simple, here. At this early stage, you're gonna want to get him something that says, “I thought of you,” not something that says, “I thought of what I would like to name our children one day.” In other words, it’s OK to keep it lighthearted and friendly, like his favorite snack (besides you, of course). This marshmallow subscription is an adorable idea that'll have you on his mind every time he receives a shipment. Plus, it wouldn't be Valentine’s Day without sweets.
But what if sugar’s not his thing? Get him another kind of subscription, like one for books or Hulu. For a few other harmless gift ideas, try a cool bottle of his favorite booze, a carrying case for said booze, a box full of charcuterie goods, a pair of sneaks, or a simple card.
If it’s only been a minute but you wanna make him feel all special or whatever, go for these:
Some Great Booze
1884 Small Batch Whiskey
$49.00
A Hulu Subscription
Hulu Movie and TV Streaming Plan
$11.99
A Clever Candy Box
Sour Belts Tackle Box
$26.00
A Meat and Nut Sampler
Beef Jerky Gift Basket with Nuts
$34.99
Leather Champagne Cover
Black Leather Champagne Holder
$154.00
fresh new kicks
Men's Court Royale Sneaker
$102.99
A Funny Card
Funny Valentine's Day Card For Him
$3.99
If You’ve Been Together 6 Months
Now that y’all have been at it for half a year, you can loosen up a bit. Your dinner dates are no longer make-or-break, and let’s be honest, you’re probs more into low-key hangouts at this point. You're comfortable enough to make jokes about his weird big toe and you’ve got a good grasp on what he likes and secretly dislikes, so use it to your shopping advantage. I can’t help ya with any gifts inspired by your inside jokes, but I will say you can never go wrong with a Fire TV Stick so you two can stay in on the weekends and catch up on all of your favorite shows together. Six months in, you probably can’t get enough of each other anyway and would rather stay in and chill (ah, young love).
This is also the perfect time to get him a quirky gift, such as beard oil or something inspired by your favorite show. If he has a hobby, like coffee- or beer-making, he’ll definitely nerd out over the sweet pot or growler below. And since you now know what his style is, you can pick out a nice shirt or cozy blanket for his place, too.
If your love is still kinda new but not, like, that new, shop this sh*t:
A Stylish Shirt
Patchwork Cotton Check Shirt
$123.00
A Funny Card
Funny Valentine Card for Boyfriend
$5.59
A Beer Growler
Beer Growler With Lid
$89.97
A Pour-Over Kettle
Stagg EKG Electric Kettle
$149.00
This Sleep Set
Boss Eye Mask and Blanket Set
$148.00
a wall poster
Michael Scott Quote Poster
$17.99
$14.99 (17% off)
A Box of Socks
Box of Black Socks
$17.99
If You’ve Been Together 9 Months
You never need to spend a lot of money on a gift, but if you’ve been wanting to spoil him with something a bit nicer, V-Day is a good excuse to spend a *little* more than you have before. If he loves jamming out, he’ll probably love some new earphones, or if his wallet needs an upgrade, get him a nice new leather one. (Like this bifold that holds 12 cards plus cash in its slim silhouette. It also has more than 1,700 raving customer reviews!)
If you guys have been saying the L-word, a six-pack of his favorite beer wrapped in a carrier that says “Six ways I love you” is so cute, it hurts. And now that you know what he likes to smell like (and what you like him to smell like), a bottle of cologne or a shave set are both classic gift ideas. Other good bets are a cool pair of sneakers, a classy leather belt, stylish sunglasses, or a tech kit—especially if y'all are stuck doing the long-distance thing.
If you’re starting to feel like this whole thing you’ve got might last, consider the below:
Wireless Headphones
Powerbeats Pro Wireless Earphones
$249.95
Some Cool Sneakers
Air Jordan 1 Low “Light Smoke Grey”
$299.00
Classic Sunnies
Fleck Round Sunglasses
$165.00
A Shave Set
Shaving Kit for Men
$89.99
A Nice Leather Belt
Handmade Leather Belt
$150.00
A Romantic 6-Pack
Six Pack Greeting Card Box (Set of 4)
$16.99
An Emergency Tech Kit
Tech Kit, Cognac
$27.00
If You’ve Been Together 1 Year
Congrats on hitting the one-year mark! Chances are you've already given him a handful of presents for other occasions and might be running out of ideas. Time to get a little creative. By now, you probably feel more secure in your relationship and comfortable planning events in the future, like a trip, for example. Anyone could use a nice piece of luggage, and it’s the perfect way to hint that you want to plan something together (you never really know someone until you travel with them, anyway). This soft-shell carry-on suitcase features mesh dividers to keep everything organized and even compression panels to prevent his clothes from wrinkling. In other words, you might be stealing this one from him, just saying. Even if you're not exactly buying tickets to any far-off locales right now (pandemic!), a scrapbook to keep all your old ones in with plenty of space for future ones is a sweet way to store all of your mementos.
For other gift ideas that you ~both~ can enjoy, try a low-key weekend road trip or a handy tray for working or eating in bed during a staycation. If you feel like splurging on your man, maybe consider updating his travel mug or watch.
If you and boo have an anniversary under your belt, get these gifts:
A Low-Key Airbnb
Modern Airstream with Amazing Views
$186.00
A Sleek Watch
Sterling x Black Watch
$300.00
A Little Massage Oil
Love Melt Massage Oil for Men, Women, Couples
$28.00
A Travel Book
Where To Go When: Unforgettable Trips for Every Month
$30.00
$26.99 (10% off)
A Ticket Scrapbook
Ticket Stub Diary
$14.95
$10.14 (32% off)
A Heated Travel Mug
Temperature Control Travel Mug 2
$179.95
These Road Trip Essentials
Road Trip Kit
$110.00
If You’ve Been Together 2 Years or Longer
By this point, you don’t need anyone’s advice for figuring out what the guy wants—you know him better than anyone else. But where you might struggle is coming up with original ideas that you haven’t already given him for his birthday, the holidays, past V-Days, etc., etc. If you’ve been dating for a few years, the Valentine’s Day hoopla may not be all that exciting to you guys anymore. But it’s still a perfectly good excuse to celebrate another year of being together. Sentimental gifts like a funny card with an inside joke or a journal of little love notes show that you care without having to spend too much money. This booklet comes with 12 blank letters and envelopes to be sent by mail and opened later on. Write your partner a little love note to brighten their day in the future. Does it get more romantic than that? I don’t think so.
You could also sign him up for a fun box subscription service that suits his interests. Or if you really feel like spoiling him, splurge on a gadget he’s been eyeing or a luxe sheet set.
If you two are super used to each other, spice it up with these things right here:
a gaming console
Nintendo Switch with Gray Joy‑Con
$299.00
A Portable Projector
360º Portable Projector & Content Device
$499.00
A Coffee Subscription
Pour-Over Coffee Subscription
$22.95
a travel bag
Duffle Bag
$90.00
Some Soft Sheets
Luxe Starter Sheet Set
$90.00
A Game for Couples
The Couples Bucket List, 100 Date Night Idea Cards
$49.99
Song Lyric Wall Art
A4 Custom Foil Metallic Song Lyrics Art
$19.00
This story originally appeared on: Cosmopolitan - Author:Brooke Shunatona
