The white tee, the go-with-anything blazer, the really great boot—shop these and more of the best wardrobe staples.
12 Essential Pieces Everyone Should Own by Age 30
Have you ever wondered why you know so many people that were born in 1991? It’s not a coincidence—1991 is the most common birth year among adults in the United States, meaning that 4.6 million Americans (myself included) are celebrating the big 3-0 this year.
As is often the case with “milestone” birthdays, there’s no shortage of advice out there about what you should have achieved by the time you turn thirty. From how much money you should have in your savings account to the label on your relationship, almost everyone has an opinion about what’s “normal.”
In reality, the only thing you “should” be doing by age thirty is, well, whatever you want—especially when it comes to your personal style. Three decades in, you’ve no doubt dabbled in some regrettable trends (the gaucho pant renaissance of 2005, anyone?), and you’ve hopefully come to the realization that a proper fit will almost always look better than a beautiful piece purchased in the wrong size. You know which pieces, fabrics, and inseams work best for you, and if you’re anything like me, you’re eternally grateful that Instagram wasn’t around while you were figuring it out.
In considering how to dress in your 30s, by now, you already know what you like and you’re ready to embrace it—because life’s too short not to love what you’re wearing. Below, the essential pieces it took me nearly thirty years to embrace and appreciate, that I’ll likely still be wearing in 2051.
The Plain White Tee
It took me well a long time to appreciate the value of a well-curated white tee collection. I like to give myself options—fitted, boxy, ribbed—and take inventory every few months to ensure they’re looking fresh.
Everlane the organic cotton crew
$18EVERLANERe/Done women’s 1950s boxy T-shirt
$90NORDSTROMAlex Mill Remy rib tee
$38ALEX MILLJ.Crew clim perfect T-shirt
$33J.CREWThe Fit-Like-a-Glove Jeans
When it comes to shopping for denim, I feel like I relearn the same lesson every year: go with what you know. I’m not saying you shouldn’t branch out, but if there’s a brand you know fits, keep buying from them! After trying (and failing) to diversify my denim collection over the years, these are the brands I’ve continued to buy in bulk.
Madewell the Perfect vintage jean in Maplewood wash
$135MADEWELLEverlane the ’90s cheeky jean
$78EVERLANEGap high-rise cigarette jeans with secret smoothing pockets with Washwell
$70GAPAcne Studios 1997 straight-leg jeans
$290NORDSTROMThe Treat-Yourself Bag
Whether you’re celebrating a bonus, a promotion, or the end of a bad relationship—some things just call for a self-congratulatory splurge. Personally, I tend to splurge on handbags and leather jackets—two pieces that last forever, either stay or come back into style over the years, and more than pay for themselves in both compliments and utility.
Celine Sangle small bucket bag in soft-grained calfskin
$2,000CELINEVince Aesther Ekme Mini Sac
$420VINCEHunting Season the Hobo
$995HUNTING SEASONLoewe Flamenco leather clutch
$2,250NET-A-PORTERThe Gets-Better-With-Age Leather Jacket
Speaking of leather jackets, I’ve never regretted spending a little more to get a high-quality piece that will last for decades. The right jacket gets better with age, so make sure to hang onto yours, even if you haven’t worn it in a while. Chances are you’ll come back around to it.
Balenciaga oversized leather wrap jacket
$6,050MODA OPERANDIAlexaChung Mulholland leather jacket
$1,275NET-A-PORTERRag & Bone biker jacket
$1,140FARFETCHCos relaxed Nappa leather blazer
$390COSThe Perfect Black Pants
Black pants have always been my mom’s signature look, but as a child, I could never figure out why she’d choose something so “boring” over spicier options like the printed capri pants I favored during the same era. I had yet to experience the thrill of putting on a pair of tailored black pants, which now serve as the foundational piece of almost all my favorite outfits.
CAES Net Sustain stretch-scuba flared pants
$330NET-A-PORTERVeronica Beard Core Hibiscus pants
$450SAKS FIFTH AVENUEEverlane the Put-Together easy pant
$78EVERLANEAcne Studios Paminne wool & mohair suiting trousers
$360NORDSTROMThe Vintage Piece You’ll Keep Forever
Some people are seemingly born with the ability to uncover incredible vintage finds. Others, like myself, needed a bit more time to get the hang of it. By thirty, you’ve made some mistakes when it comes to resale, but with the help of an increasingly accessible vintage market, here’s hoping you’ve discovered one or two pieces you’ll be wearing for years to come.
Moschino pre-owned 1990 striped crop top
$620FARFETCHVintage 1990s Dolce & Gabbana sheer champagne knit plunging dress
$8,9001STDIBSGucci vintage convertible bamboo-top-handle bag leather medium
$805REBAGChristian Dior oversize sunglasses
The Broken-In Graphic Tee
As a teenager, graphic tees felt like an easy way to advertise my impeccable (read: painfully nerdy) taste—not unlike the Death Cab for Cutie song that automatically played whenever someone visited my Myspace page. While I’ve toned it down a little bit over the years, silly graphic tees have remained a wardrobe staple, whether tucked into a high-waisted trouser or thrown on over a pair of knit bike shorts. I find they hit their sweet spot about six months in, once they’re properly worn in.
NYC Collection Parks green streets T-shirt
$44ONLY NYUniqlo Women of Their Nature UT short-sleeve graphic T-shirt
$20UNIQLOGucci Exotica pineapple-print T-shirt
$490FARFETCHKule the Modern Wink
$68KULEZara Sesame Street T-shirt
$26ZARAThe Job Interview Blazer
Remember your very first job interview outfit? Mine was a J. Crew skirt suit with nude Cole Haan pumps—both lovely, but perhaps out of place on Google’s ultra-casual Mountain View campus. I’ve since discovered that interview dressing is all about looking your best, not playing a part. People can usually tell if you’re wearing something you just bought, so grab something you already own that you’d wear to an important meeting with your current employer.
Aritzia Cherrelle blazer
$228ARITZIAAcne Studios light summer wool-blend suit jacket
$700SAKS FIFTH AVENUETotême Loreo oversized double-breasted woven blazer
$700NET-A-PORTERMango essential structured blazer
$100MANGOThe Wear Everywhere Black Boots
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but yes, you should probably buy that pair of black boots you’ve been eyeing. I say this not because I want to encourage mindless consumerism but because I truly believe you’ll get more wear out of them than whatever other one-and-done pieces you might be considering. As a thirtieth birthday present to me, be sure to take your favorites to the shoe repair shop—they’ll look like new and last that much longer.
Blundstone 1671 chelsea boots
$200NORDSTROM& Other Stories heeled leather sock boots
$179& OTHER STORIESDear Frances Spirit boots in black
$620DEAR FRANCESSouliers Martinez Elena leather 60mm boots
The Versatile Event Dress
By the time you turn thirty, you’ll have made it through the first round of friends’ weddings, but you’ve likely got at least a few more on the horizon (to say nothing of the approaching baby showers!). I used to buy a new dress for each wedding, but now, I’ve cultivated a collection of looks that lend themselves to being repeatedly photographed—no surprises or wardrobe malfunctions.
Raey multi-seam twist-strap silk dress
$649MATCHESFASHION.COMSablyn Taylor silk slip dress
$495INTERMIXFrame Savannah V-neck maxi dress
$478INTERMIXBec & Bridge Valentina asymmetric-hem satin midi-dress
$285SELFRIDGESThe Grown-Up Underwear
Take a good hard look at your underwear collection—is it befitting of a fully-functioning thirty-year-old human on the precipice of their best decade yet? Clear out the tattered remnants from your college years and make way for something slightly more elevated. Because strategizing how to dress in your 30s means your undergarments, too.
Cuup the Demi bra
$68CUUPCuup the Highwaist Bottom
$18CUUPKit Undergarments triangle underwire bra
$58KIT UNDERGARMENTSKit Undergarments seamless classic cut brief
$28KIT UNDERGARMENTSThe Understated Everyday Jewelry
Anyone who lived through the bib necklace trend of 2013 can appreciate the value of an understated approach to accessorizing. I look for pieces that won’t make me cringe when I remember them ten years from now.
Mejrui chain necklace
$160MEJURIWolf Circus small Marta earrings
$125GARMENTORYPippa Small 18-karat gold Herkimer diamond earrings
$688NET-A-PORTERStone & Strand Bombe 10-karat gold ring
$290NET-A-PORTERThis story originally appeared on: Vogue - Author:Grace Stearns