Yes, it's 2021, and they're hanging out again.
A Complete Timeline of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s Relationship
Yes, it's 2021, and Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck have reunited. No, you're not dreaming. This is real. This is happening.
But here's the thing—we don't know for sure at this point whether their reconciliation is strictly platonic or romantic. Here's what we do know, though: Lopez and Affleck were engaged in the early aughts, split up, and went on to date, marry, and divorce other people. Now they're both single and in each other's lives again—though the exact capacity is unclear. Until we find out more, let's look back on how “Bennifer” formed in the first place:
December 2001
Sparks fly between Lopez and Affleck on the set of their movie Gigli.
November 2002
Affleck pops the question to Lopez with a custom-made pink diamond solitaire engagement ring. In an interview with Diane Sawyer, Lopez gushes that Affleck is “brilliantly smart, loving, charming, and affectionate.” She adds, “I just admire him in every way.”
September 2003
Just days before they're set to tie the knot in Santa Barbara, California, they release a statement saying they're postponing the wedding.
“Due to the excessive media attention surrounding our wedding, we have decided to postpone the date,” the statement reads. “When we found ourselves seriously contemplating hiring three separate 'decoy brides' at three different locations, we realized that something was awry. We began to feel that the spirit of what should have been the happiest day of our lives could be compromised. We felt what should have been a joyful and sacred day could be spoiled for us, our families, and our friends.”
January 2004
Less than three months later, the wedding is off. The couple confirm their split with separate statements.
Lopez's rep releases the following statement, per People: “Jennifer Lopez has ended her engagement to Ben Affleck. At this difficult time, we ask that you respect her privacy.”
Meanwhile, Affleck's rep adds, “I am not going to confirm anything about his personal life. We don’t want to get dragged into quicksand. Everybody wants a war. It’s not happening from our side.”
April 2021
Affleck and Lopez stay friendly (at least in recent years). He praises her work ethic to InStyle: “She has great talent, but she has also worked very hard for her success, and I'm so happy for her that she seems, at long last, to be getting the credit she deserves.”
Affleck visits Lopez at her Los Angeles home on April 30, a source tells People. “They are friends. They have always been friends and they have seen each other through the years,” another source says.
But TMZ alleges their reunion began before Lopez and ex-fiancé Alex Rodriguez's recent breakup. Insiders tell the outlet Lopez and Affleck were emailing each other regularly, starting in early February, when she was filming Shotgun Wedding in the Dominican Republic. Allegedly, Affleck's emails were “loving” and showed “longing” for Lopez.
May 2021
Lopez and Affleck reportedly take a trip together to Montana and were spotted at a resort near Big Sky.
“She had a great time with Ben,” a source tells People about the Montana trip. “She is happy with him and enjoys spending time with him.” A separate insider reveals to People, “[Jennifer] spent several days with Ben out of town. They have a strong connection. It's all been quick and intense, but Jennifer is happy.”
Meanwhile, a source tells E! Online, “She wants to give it a shot with Ben. They never really had closure and she has always wondered what could have been. The timing was never right and they were in different places until now.”
This story originally appeared on: Glamour - Author:Paulina Jayne Isaac
